- Evidence-based approach
- Empowering conversations
- PACFA credentialed
About Berni
Berni Palings is a compassionate, open-minded counsellor with PACFA credentialing and 11 years of professional experience. She helps people who are struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, low self-esteem and life changes. Her approach is direct and practical, aimed at helping someone feel steadier and more able to move forward.
Berni believes people are the experts in their own stories. She listens without judgement and helps clients find the strengths they already have. Sessions focus on clear steps and small changes that build confidence and momentum.
Her work commonly addresses stress, workplace difficulties, addictions and trauma. She also gives attention to areas such as LGBT issues, sexual assault and abuse, and the challenges faced by people connected to adoption and foster care. Berni encourages honest conversations about what is getting in the way right now.
She uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques to tackle practical problems and emotional pain. Conversations may include looking at patterns, setting doable goals and practising skills that reduce anxiety and improve self-worth. Berni aims to make progress feel realistic and achievable.
Clients can expect a warm, steady presence and a focus on actionable tools. She will help people prioritise what matters and make choices that support a more satisfying life. To begin, follow the site's Start Therapy process and book according to availability.
Therapeutic approaches that suit busy lives
Many of Berni's methods come from evidence-based therapeutic techniques that focus on problems and practical change. One common approach helps people identify unhelpful patterns and replace them with clearer routines and behaviours that reduce anxiety and boost mood. This is useful for stress, low motivation and workplace difficulties.Another frequently used method focuses on grief, trauma and strong emotions by helping people name feelings and build simple coping skills. This work aims to reduce overwhelm and increase a person's sense of control after difficult events.
Finding the right approach is a collaborative process. Berni works with each person to decide which techniques fit their goals, values and day-to-day life. She checks in and adjusts the plan so it stays useful and realistic.
If you are considering online therapy, confirm available session options before booking as formats are not specified here. Online sessions can make fitting therapy into a busy schedule easier, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They can also let someone join from a quieter location or avoid being on camera if that helps them engage better.
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Experience
11+ years
Credentials
Australia
Languages
English, Dutch
Frequently asked questions
What concerns does Berni help with?
She supports people coping with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, grief, stress and self-esteem problems. Her work also covers trauma, addictions, workplace issues and matters linked to adoption and foster care.
What is her therapeutic style like?
Her style is compassionate and non-judgemental while remaining practical. Sessions focus on identifying strengths, setting small goals and practising skills that help day-to-day functioning.
How much experience does she have?
Berni has 11 years of professional experience working with people on a range of issues from grief to workplace stress. That background informs a practical, steady approach.
What credential does she hold and where is she based?
She is credentialed with PACFA and works from Australia.
Which languages are available for sessions?
Sessions are offered in English and Dutch.
Can international clients work with her?
International clients are not currently accepted; sessions are conducted within Australia.
How are sessions paid for and what do they cost?
Costs vary with location and therapist availability. Sessions use a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.
How do I begin a course of therapy?
Use the Start Therapy button, complete the short matching questionnaire, then schedule sessions according to the therapist's availability.